If you struggle with your body image, there is one simple thing you can do to improve the perception of your body: change who you follow on social media. Here’s more info why this works, plus a list of body positive Instagram accounts you can (and should) follow.
If you relate to this, you’re not alone. We live in a world where anyone can manufacture a perfect life, relationship and body all online. Platforms like Instagram and Facebook show us curated versions of other people’s lives. Many accounts feature idealized nutrition nor fitness goals, negative or extreme diet messages, and unrealistic – and highly photoshopped – bodies. Photo altering apps that make it simple for anyone to add a filter or edit photos in order to make them look “perfect”. We see it and believe it to be true, even when it’s not.
A survey published last year found that people who used social media had increased feelings of depression and anxiety. Instagram ranked the worst, which isn’t too surprising given how image-centric the app is. People who use Instagram also had the most body image concerns, especially young women and girls.
Recent studies suggest that it takes just two minutes of looking at images for you to alter your perception of your weight and your body. Do you spend more than a couple of minutes looking at your Instagram feed each day? My guess is that the answer for most of us is ‘yes’ – which means your daily Instagram scroll is most likely causing negative feelings about yourself and your body.
Here’s why: the media and popular social media accounts only tend to portray thin bodies; images of fat and larger bodied folks are largely left out. When your feed is full of people who are thin, beautiful and perfectly made up, you’re left feeling like “everyone” is thin and beautiful and perfect. Images set unrealistic expectations and can make you feel sad, inadequate, anxious, and unworthy, or wonder what you are doing wrong.
Normalizing bodies of all different shapes, sizes and colors is an important step to improving your own body image. Because here’s the thing: thin bodies are NOT the only bodies that are beautiful. Bodies come in a huge variety of shapes, sizes, colors, genders and abilities. When we only follow people who look a certain way, then we start to believe this is what real life is, and we set an unrealistic bar against which we measure ourselves.
But just as some images cause us to feel worse about ourselves, you can use images to shift your perception and improve your body image. Because nobody is perfect. And the more we see populate our feed with images of people that feature stretch marks or acne, saggy boobs or hairy legs, belly rolls or cellulite, the more we begin to realize that all this is NORMAL. We are all normal.
While we can’t control what people put on social media, we can control who we follow and therefore, what we see. So here’s what I want you to do:
Step 1: Do A Social Media Cleanout
Go through all your social media channels, but especially Instagram (since it is so photo-focused). Unfollow or delete anyone or any account that:
- Makes you feel bad about yourself or your body
- Features extreme exercise or dieting behaviors
- Cuts out certain foods or food groups
- Talks about “clean eating” or “good” foods and “bad” foods
- Gives unsolicited diet advice
- Shares before and after photos
- Propels the myth that weight loss = health (because spoiler: it doesn’t)
- Causes you to compare yourself to them
Step 2: Follow More Body Positive Accounts
Follow accounts that feature a more diverse range of body shapes and sizes. By putting a variety of body sizes in your social media feed, you’ll start to shift your perception of what is “normal”. Below are a few suggestions of body positive Instagram accounts to get you started; you can see the full list of accounts here: Body Positive Instagram Accounts.
Use this list to help fill your feed with lots of different bodies of all sorts of shapes, sizes, genders, abilities and colors. I’ve done my best to exclude anyone who promotes diets, intentional weight loss or any other extreme behavior but if I’ve overlooked something please let me know.
Activists & Educators
For body positivity books, websites and podcasts, check out my resources page.
For more inspiration and accounts to follow, check out this post.
Who have I missed? Share your favorite body-positive Instagram accounts below!
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